Be Truthful To Your Own Self To Succeed

Had a tough day today. The markets were underHe tried desperately to continue managing and
heavy profit taking. As a day trader, I was doinghang on to the ailing business. More and more of
my best trying to salvage my positions in thehis money was going down the drain.
markets and cutting losses before the damageWhile telling me about his situation, he told me
becomes too big. I have a feeling this market thatthat he practiced Nature's Laws positively and he
has been going up for quite some time, would gosincerely could not see what he was doing wrong.
through more correction before coming back upI smiled and said that in order for Nature's Laws
again.to work positively to provide positive results, he
Towards the end of the day, I had managed tomust search deeply within him what he really
trim my positions to a very minimum level. A littlewanted in his life. He looked at me intently waiting
damage ($) but manageable. There was anotherfor me to explain. I said to him, "My friend, in
reason why I reduced my positions. I would be onorder for the whole of Nature to work with you,
a short holiday in Indonesia from tomorrow fornot only you need to practice Nature's Laws
almost a week. I am not sure whether I would bepositively, but you also need to be truthful to
able to write as I would be leaving my laptopyour own self!"
computer behind. Strict instructions from my wife!Then, I asked him whether the business that he
She says that I am spending way too much ofventured into was something that his heart had
time with the machine.really wanted to do. He replied that it was not
Anyway, I have some thoughts to share. Overreally his first option. In fact, he loved the
the years, using my first book, The Seven Basicautomobile industry more. He was in the current
Laws Of Nature, many people have started newbusiness because he saw the money that can be
businesses. Quite a large number that usedmade. Then I suggested to him to pursue his
Nature's Laws positively achieved the successoriginal love, that is the automobile industry. This is
that they wanted.when he said that he could not afford to because
Here, I would like to be honest with you. Althoughhe had lost all his money in the current business
there are many successes, there are those whoventure. I asked him whether there was a way
had encountered failures (or I call themto salvage it. He replied saying that he cannot
temporary defeats). I can write on and on aboutseem to find a way. I looked at him intently and
those who succeeded, but in this entry, I wouldsaid, "My friend, I think it is time to cut your
like to share some thoughts with regards tolosses and move on!"
those who went through these so-calledAfter much thought, he took the advice and
temporary defeats.closed the business. As he did this and started to
One of my seminar participants and a good friend,pursue a business in the automobile industry, in a
encountered this temporary defeat a number ofrelatively short period of time, he got a contract
years back. He was doing quite well as a qualityto fix high-end alarm system to luxury cars. Now,
control executive of an automobile company thathe is earning much better than before, and has
assembled luxury cars. Although he earned well,more time for himself.
he never really had much time for himself as heAll through our life, we are taught subconsciously
was always occupied with his job. Deep in him, heabout attachment. We get attached to our family,
wanted to know more about himself, thematerial wealth, position at work and so on. Please
universe, existence, Nature and all that jazz.note that I am not saying that attachment is bad.
This is when the Law of Vibration and AttractionAs long as we are in this physical body and living
comes in to effect; changes began to take placeon this plane of existence, attachment will
in his life as per his constant and powerfulnaturally exist. However, it is also vitally important
thoughts. The company he was working for wereto learn of the other aspect of life, which is called
trying to cut cost as they were losing thedetachment. We come into this world alone and
dealership for one of their popular car model. Aswe eventually leave alone. All that we have
such, they offered him a VSS (Voluntaryacquired is from this world and eventually we
Separation Scheme) that amounted to quite ahave to return it back to this world including the
large sum of money because he had beenbody.
working in the company for many years.As such, always have a balanced view of life.
He took the option and used the money to startDevelop your intellect to be able to choose, as
a business in the food industry. He got togetherper the Law of Choosing; that is to choose to be
with a relative and they produced a local delicacyattached and also detached when the need arises.
in large scale to supply to the local supermarkets.As for me, I have cut my losses for the day, but
He now had more time to pursue the things thatI will be back another day, as my heart is still in
he wanted to do. At first business was good butday trading. It is a part and parcel of the game
eventually things begin to go wrong, as there(winning and losing). Kind of sounds like LIFE
were some misunderstandings with his partners.doesn't it?